Have you ever stopped to think about how YOUR words taste?
How would it feel if you were on the receiving end of them?
They’re easy to spit out aren’t they?….but NOT so easy to take back. And once they’re out of your mouth,it’s too late.The damage could well be done. In fact with the rise of social media, plenty of damage is done with often catastrophic consequences for the person who hastily delivered them.
And when emotions are high, it’s wise to pause for a breath and to gather your thoughts before you release your comments out to the world.
Why is that?
Because your words say more about you than the person you are directing them at.
So before you dish yours out, think:
- Do I really mean what I’m about to say?
- Should I take longer before I say it?
- Is there a better way to express how I feel?
- Is this my emotions ‘in the moment’ speaking?
- Am I ready for the consequences of my words?
- Is this who I really am?
- Will. I .Regret. This.?
and….. Why don’t I just shut up, and give this some serious thought first?
It’s much tastier to listen. You communicate far more, and keep your reputation in tact.
So think BEFORE you speak, and taste your words before you spit them out. After all, YOU are the message.
That’s food for thought.
amana