We’re more influential than we could ever realise, and that’s exactly what I talked about at a football club recently, and to a group of leaders today.
The truth is, it doesn’t matter who you are or what you do – this applies to all of us. I’m talking about managing yourself.
My message was this:
When you allow other people (or just stuff) to get to you, impact you or negatively affect your mood – it changes your behaviour.
And when you change your behaviour, it has an impact on – and gets to – the people around you. And then it comes back to you again.
Oh, I know, it’s not that easy to control what’s going on in your head (and heart) – but it’s a helluva lot easier than trying to control what’s going on in someone else’s.
You’re in charge of what you allow to stay in your head.
You’re in charge of you.
amana
The Spotlight Coach
Straightforward, straight talking